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money matters: balancing romance and finance

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love and sustaining a healthy relationship is the true challenge. And with money issues becoming a common cause of disagreements between lovers, you may have to start passing out financial compatibility tests on the first date. No matter what your financial status is, balancing your love life, along with your checkbook is important in maintaining a strong bond in your partnership. Because a simple thing like saving money may ultimately save your relationship.

Talk about it. The crux of money struggles often stems from a lack of communication. People put off discussing financial expectations like HIV testing; they know it's important, but no one wants to talk about it. Stop being afraid to get serious about your finances - especially if joint bank accounts are in your future. Old Habits Die Hard. Levels of responsibility differ for each individual; however, when you choose to enter a relationship, it's like getting a crash course in understanding your lover's spending habits. People who constantly spend may not be financially compatible with people who constantly save. So, it's necessary to find a spending plan that suits both of your monetary needs and fits within your budgets.

Patience is a virtue and it's a necessity in relationships. Whatever financial preparations you and your partner have made for the future, understand that those plans may take time to manifest. As long as there's a consistent effort from both parties to grow together emotionally, spiritually, mentally and financially, then success, in all aspects of your relationship, is well within your reach.

Romance and finance can be the bond that keeps couples together, but it can also be the one issue that causes people to drift apart. To ensure that you and your partner don't get caught up in the common cycle of unhealthy money-handling habits, make sure that you share your thoughts and issues with each other so there are no surprises. -jamana jamison

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